Indulging in kinky activities has become a normal part of many couples' sex lives. Some will use bondage or role play as a special treat, while others will act out their sexual fantasies more frequently.
Many women say that they enjoy a light spank on the buttocks while they're partner is penetrating them doggie style. For the guys, being blindfolded and having their hands bound with their lady's nylons while she has her wicked way, can be an incredible turn on.
Whether you're an adventurous couple seeking to experiment, or you've been together a while and want to try something new, getting kinky can be an exciting and very pleasurable way to spice things up.
Guys, here's an incredibly arousing idea to try that can give your woman multiple orgasms and provide intense sexual pleasure for you both. You will need the following items: a blindfold, a stocking or scarf, a small dildo or vibrator and some lubricant.
Blindfold and Foreplay
With your lady in the centre of the bed, begin with gentle kissing and caressing. Take her hands and slowly guide her to a sitting up position where you will then apply the blindfold. If you do not have a blindfold you can use a scarf. Once you have covered her eyes, ask her if she's comfortable and ensure that she can't peek - this will get her wondering what you're up to and add to her excitement.
Bondage and More Foreplay
Gentle kisses to her neck with mild nibbling of her ear lobes can be very arousing. A passionate sigh followed by a whisper in her ear to tell her how much you enjoy doing this to her can further increase her pleasure.
Moving down to her breasts - use the tip of your tongue to gently flick backwards and forwards, side to side and around the nipples. French kissing her nipples, subtle sucking and rubbing them with your lips are all pleasurable. Sometimes a very gentle nibble can create a tingling sensation which she'll also find arousing.
While holding her hands down, as if pinning her to the bed, link her fingers with yours and kiss her slowly and passionately. Bring her hands together and lightly bind her wrists with one of her stockings. If possible, tie her hands to the headboard - this will make her feel totally submissive to you.
Oral Stimulation
With your lady blindfolded and her hands bound, position yourself between her legs and caress her body by moving your hands lightly along the centre and sides of her torso, continuing over her hips and down the outside of her thighs. Bring your hands back up along her inner thighs and slowly part her legs to further expose her vaginal area.
Tease her with a stroke of your tongue starting from her vagina and moving up to her clitoris. Do this a couple of times before staying on her clitoral area. Move the tip of your tongue up and down and from side to side. Gently suck and lick her while alternating French kisses between her clitoris and vagina. Push your tongue in and out a few times before moving back to her clitoris. If you can caress her body while stimulating her orally, this will heighten her pleasure.
Adding Your Fingers
Expose her clitoris by gently parting her labia with the thumb and forefinger of one hand and continue sucking and licking her. Insert a finger from your other hand into her vagina and softly curl it towards you so as to stimulate her g-spot on the outer wall of her vagina. Alternate the movements of your tongue and finger to circular motions - she will be in ecstasy! At the same time, try letting out an enthusiastic moan of your own while telling her how much you enjoy doing this to her - see how she responds!
Next, lubricate her anus and while continuing to stimulate her clitoris with your tongue, insert one finger into her vagina and another into her anus and gently move them in and out. Do not alternate the same finger between anal and vaginal stimulation as this can cause her infection.
Double Penetration and Multiple Orgasms
When you sense that your woman is close to climax or indeed she tells you so, insert the dildo or vibrator into her anus - ensuring she is adequately lubricated at all times. Continue to lick and suck her clitoris. Once she begins climaxing, enter her vagina with your penis while the sex toy is still penetrating her anus. This can prolong and intensify her orgasm or indeed bring on another. Either way, indulging in this kinky idea can provide a pleasurable experience for you both.
The tricky part is keeping the dildo in her anus while you enter her vagina. For this reason, some couples prefer to use a sex toy known as a butt plug. This is a type of dildo shaped so that it is thinner at the top, enabling easier penetration; thicker in the middle and again thinner at the base so that it remains in place during intercourse.
A Little Too Exciting
Introducing this kinky idea into your sex life can be extremely exciting for both partners. If the female hasn't climaxed prior, she may do so as soon as she's entered by her partner and this can be an incredible turn on for the male. Unfortunately, the same does not work the other way around if the man orgasms too quickly. Any kinky idea you try will be no fun if the fun's over too soon.
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